Spun in Gold

A seemingly endless summer has succumbed to a most exquisite fall, which I hope sticks around for the long haul. I've captured a few recent moments from Manito, and while I try to enjoy all of it--the crisp, oak smell in the air, the way the light plays off of people's hair as they walk past, or the dogs that amble about--I simply can't take my eyes off the trees. They glow and I love them.

 

It's been a busy season so far with fall social gatherings, writing projects, and a new story publication that I'm thrilled to share here. 

We also had a lovely evening out last week in Kellog, Idaho--a drive I haven't done for years--to watch my dad and one of his longtime pals perform some of their newest songs (and some oldies) at a place called the Snake Pit--a local Idaho treasure I was not aware of until very recently. 

While the Snake Pit suggests biker, black leather and metal bands, it's actually a big, quirky bar housed inside a cabin. It's also a place of respite for hunters, hikers, and locals in the area, and on this particular Friday night, the place was completely packed. It was a perfect venue for a couple of gray-haired dads trying out their tunes with a live audience.

And finally, my newest story, Pearls Before Swine is now up and ready for reading at Word Riot, one of my favorite literary magazines. Revision does indeed pay off in the end.

A few more October images before I sign off:

More to come this week. Thanks for stopping by!

M

I'm back now

Sometimes there are frantic intervals in our lives that utterly absorb us and take us completely away from ourselves and the people we love. Maybe I mean this figuratively. We have not necessarily disappeared in these moments, but the distance and the disconnect are palpable. In these periods of perpetuity, it often feels that in order to survive, we must abandon our bodies, put our sense of humor in a drawer, and forget, for a little while, the ease of breathing slowly. These are not easy times, and our energy must be carefully rationed. We cut off; we retreat; we become dormant.

When we're caught like this, often we'll enter long dances with insomnia through the night, and even after we've refused her, time and time again, she keeps reaching for us, dragging us away from our dreaming like a crazy, caffeinated ghost. 

If we're lucky, our lives are merely punctuated by periods like this, but not comprised of them. I am lucky. I am coming back alive again.

Some things are very different from a year ago: We bought a home together by the park--our most favorite park--which we love, and I am talking to all of our plants, promising things will indeed be okay in these new windows. When I do this, I'm quietly begging them to keep their leaves upright, to in fact hold onto their leaves for that matter, and to let me know in a reasonable fashion if they need to be watered or re-potted. Wilting or drinking water very quickly are good ways to communicate this to me. This is what I've told them. So far, we're on the same page. And I'm writing again more, which is essential.

This is what it means to re calibrate, to recalculate, to come to peace with the old and invite into my life the very new: the words, ideas, people, and visions that bring a sense of hope, empowerment, and creative vitality to this world. 

I'm back now. I'm going to try and stay a while this time.

Peace,
Marianne

Photo credit: calmingcalamity.tumblr.com  thank you!

Monday Musings: Things I love lately

The last two days here in Spokane have been gloriously, inexplicably warm and sunny. In fact, the sun is pouring through my window as I write this, and I'm tempted to whisper, ever so quietly and just to myself, that it feels like...shhhhh: it feels like spring.

But alas, I can't say such things in January. We all know better. Still...we'll take the sun any day it wants to be here.

In addition to the sunshine, here are a few little diversions / projects I've been enjoying lately:

>> Weekend walks and thrifting: Saturday was foggy all day--a dense, wet, lingering fog--but we took a long stroll through Manito Park, peaked at a few houses that are for rent (we're keeping our eyes peeled these days!), and then we hit up a few of our favorite thrift stores, where I found a super oldie vintage skirt that's now mid-face lift.

>> Super oldie skirt project: Currently learning how to do a blind hem, realizing that I may not have the right presser foot for the project, and while it drives me a little crazy, I'm glad for the opportunity to practice my sewing skills.

>> Transparent: One of the most honest, witty, well-cast shows I've seen in a long time. It snagged a Golden Globe a couple of weeks ago, putting it on our radar, and truth be told, we blew through all ten episodes in a week. Beautiful writing, complicated, challenging characters, hilarious family drama.

>> Rittenhouse Old Fashioned: Because Joe is an amazing bartender and I've recently discovered that sewing projects pair well with whiskey.

>> Sasquatch Hunter's Almanac: The newest novel by one of our beloved local writers, Sharma Shields, whose book launch is tomorrow night at Auntie's Bookstore, and I can't wait to hear her read.


>> Good, long talks with good, kind peeps: Yep. They're the best.


>> Sunday jogging: Running through sunny Riverfront Park while the sun sparkled --gorgeous.


>> And...the Internet: Seriously. Take a peak at these inspiring photos of tree and flower canopies all over the world!

I want to visit every single one...

What do you love lately? Would love to hear!

Cheers, xo


{Top photo: Charley Zheng; canopy images via Bored Panda--thank you}

I dream of Santa Cruz ...

Because, you see, I went to college there oh so many years ago, and around this time of year I feel waves of nostalgia for the little beach town I once called home.

It's a sacred place, this northern pocket of California, and while it's been some years, I still have vivid memories of long walks through the redwoods on campus, spending an afternoon curled up with books on the beach, or sipping coffee downtown, jotting notes and people-watching.

Santa Cruz was also a magical place because of the winters there, which are absolutely beautiful, and on certain days, unbelievably mild. There was something transformative about growing up in the Northwest, knowing winter to be a season filled with rain and snow, sharp, dry winds, and a grey that only breaks on the coldest, clearest days, to then discover that California offers a much gentler version of the season.

Sure, I knew there were folks living in warmer parts of the world--people who were not in the habit of layering with so much wool during the winter months--but to actually experience this shift was something else entirely. I woke in the mornings to sun drenched fields stretched out across campus, fog burning off the tops of the Eucalyptus trees, and the bay glittering below us.

Oh, Pacific Ocean, how I dearly miss you.

These are the days that I daydream of visits to the beach, warm sun against my skin, and I wish, hope, and pray that I'll find my way back someday soon.

And while it may be some time before we take any big trips south, here are a few sweet ideas and inspired objects from our friends at Etsy that help bring the ocean a little closer.

{You've got to keep the daydream alive!}

Ocean Waves Pencil Case

This sweet little pouch: Home to your favorite writing or sketching utensils and a reminder of the waves, the surfers, the sand and salty mist.

Sleepy Sailboat: A tiny wooden boat that actually moves over its tiny waves. A reminder of sunny days in Santa Cruz when the bay is sprinkled with open sails.

A pretty planter: For filling with jade and placing near the sunniest window to keep the memory of lush coastal succulents alive.

Seven stacked whales: A print to remind you of that one afternoon you saw dolphins (!) swimming in the ocean, and to recall how very wide and deep and full of life that big body of water really is.

Beach glass mobile: Whimsical piece to catch the light and remind you of the faded, sun-washed colors of the town, and the ocean worn relics of the sea.

Wavy mug: Lovely vessel for sipping coffee and tea and remembering all the favorite haunts around town: Lulu Carpenter's, Cafe Pergolesi, and the Buttery--good coffee & amazing baked treats.


What are your favorite ocean memories? Do you have a place you hold in your mind's eye?
I'd love to hear. Happy Thursday to you!

Cheers, xo


{Photo credit: stylishlyme --thank you!}

So many colors in a winter sky

 

It's been a few days, with a nice, long weekend in between, and I've been away from this space for a bit too long. In an effort to reconnect, I come bearing photos of bright, wintry sunshine, and a gentle reminder to us all that these dark days are perhaps not so monochromatic after all. 

In honor of Martin Luther King, Joe and I went for a hike up to Big Rock, which overlooks the gorgeous Palouse. This was one of a few adventures we took over the long weekend, and we made it to the top of the hill just in time to catch the sun as it dipped into the horizon. 

{Note the snowy trail and dubious smile}

We've seen tiny rabbits on this hike in the summer months (someday we'll catch a photo of them), but for this walk we were struck by the utter stillness of the forest, the loud crunch of snow underfoot, knowing as we climbed through the quiet, that so many creatures are napping this time of year.

And so it is with the animals: Silent and sleeping in the winter months, still so much life breathes, burrowed deep in dreams as we walk amidst their slumber.

More inspiration to come this week, so please do come back to visit.

Tomorrow I'll share a little something I've been daydreaming about lately, and before you go, words of reflection from one of my favorite poets, Mary Oliver, as she remembers her beloved.

Also, here's one of my favorite Oliver poems--words to hold onto:

Don't Hesitate

If you suddenly and unexpectedly feel joy,

don’t hesitate. Give in to it. There are plenty

of lives and whole towns destroyed or about

to be. We are not wise, and not very often

kind. And much can never be redeemed.

Still, life has some possibility left. Perhaps this

is its way of fighting back, that sometimes

something happens better than all the riches

or power in the world. It could be anything,

but very likely you notice it in the instant

when love begins. Anyway, that’s often the

case. Anyway, whatever it is, don’t be afraid

of its plenty. Joy is not made to be a crumb.

                                                         (Via Brain Pickings and Structure and Style--thank you.)

Do not be afraid by what is obscured by a tree

It's Thursday morning, precisely half-way through the month of January, and approximately 30 degrees Fahrenheit outside my office walls. Chilly, sleepy, but happy to be here. 

These are some words I found on one of my favorite sites, lunch poems. 

They are a gentle push, a knowing nudge into something a little more human and alive on this winter's morning. These come from Activity Book, a chapbook by poet & musician, Kelly Schirmann, and I'm ready to read more.

>>>>  Here's to good vibes and inspired words on this winter's Thursday.  <<<<

Cheers, xo

Good Reads

I'm lucky enough to be a member of the world's coolest book group. Why the coolest, you might ask? To be fair, I've never been a regular participant in any book group until this past year, but the consistency and accountability alone make this group one that works really well for me. We also have some lovely ladies who bring their humor, insight, and great energy to our meetings.

The structure is also very simple: We pick a book for each month, we read it over the course of the month, and then we take turns hosting the group, meeting, and chatting at our respective homes. We're a group of about ten, sometimes fewer when one of us has another commitment, which is always okay. We are not a stressful group. We allow for life to happen and flexibility is always generously granted. We have, on occasion, been known to meet in a wine bar, and this worked out nicely as well.

I suppose that, in all fairness, it's hard to say anything is the best when I've very little ground for comparison, but let's just say that being around this lovely group, chatting with them about what we've read while sipping a little wine and nibbling cheese, is exactly what I need in my life.

It's also a once a month commitment, which is about all I can comfortably sign up for these days, as my free time feels a little stretched after work. But even when I'm looking at the clock on book group days thinking, 'how am I going to have energy for two more hours of talking?' (I already do a lot of talking at my job to begin with), I always feel like something in me has been restored or validated after I meet with these ladies.

Maybe it's just the chance to talk about good writing, how a narrative is built, how lines move us into a new perspective, all of it reminding me of grad school and the work we are all so deeply invested in, and that this very important work isn't so very far away from us. Many of the women in our group are also writers, so a shared appreciation of the craft is indeed a happy addition to the experience. And usually our group meets on Thursdays, and I happen to like Thursdays quite a bit.

Tomorrow we will gather to discuss Nobody Is Ever Missing by Catherine Lacey, a novel about about a young woman who essentially runs away from her life and husband in New York and flies to New Zealand, where she hitchhikes from one town to the next, without a plan or any sense of when or where she'll land. She frequently moves in and out of  haunting memories from her past, fixating on her relationship with her mother and her husband, her sister's tragic death, and as she travels, she makes attempts at unraveling the mess that's followed her up to this point in her adult life, but rather than find a sense of peace in her escape, she seems to only be descending further and further into a very dark, fragmented reality.

While her emotional and mental stability are tenuous at best, making the narrative one that becomes a bit surreal at times, as readers, we desperately want her to land, to find safety and human connection, even after she repeatedly tells us that human connection for her is impossible. And it's so good. So very dark and so very good. I'm excited to hear what others in my group have to say.

In case you're curious, here are a few of my favorite books that we've read and discussed over the past few months. I have to say, if you're considering joining a book group, or if you're already in one, you may agree that picking the books is often the hardest part. We've found that bringing a list of options to the meeting (often books we've been wanting to read or that we've been reading about) is a good way to lay all of our ideas in front of us, and then decide which one sounds right for each month.

We've been pretty happy with the results so far:

               

                                                        The Waves, by Virginia Woolf

                                            Americanah, by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie

Stone Mattress, by Margaret Atwood

                                The Assassination of Margaret Thatcher, by Hilary Mantel

We Are All Completely Beside Ourselves, by Karen Joy Fowler

Are you or have you ever been in a book group? What have your experiences been? 

And what are you reading? I would love to hear.  Cheers, xo